Friday, July 31, 2009

Alternative Healing ??

Okay, So here it is, on the cusp of being 3 years since the first pregnancy mishap and the decision to become parents.... any yet, there is no baby for my and though I'm dealing with the infertility issue better now then I have in the past, I'm still annoyed with the fact that my body just wont do what I want it to.

The last few days I have been making some decisions on whether or not to make an appointment with an real Obstetrician or if maybe I'm okay just flying by night for a while longer... In this stupor of thought I have done some internet research on the world of Infertility and Fertility Symbols that I have found very interesting and I thought maybe I'd put some of the information I have found to use.

First of all, here are some great Fertility Symbols that I have come across...

Tiki - The Tiki depicts the first mortal born to the Gods. It is also a strong fertility symbol, with the hands on the loins symbolizing fertility. The Tiki is a good luck charm, and believed to give the wearer clarity of thought and great inner knowledge.


Elephant - Elephants have long been held a symbol of royalty, fertility, and longevity. The elephant has a most auspicious symbolism, embodying strength, wisdom, power and success. Rub your elephant to bring more children into your family.

Kwan Yin - Goddess of Mercy and Compassion. She is the most celebrated Goddess in Asia. She brings peace to monetary situations and increases unconditional love and compassion in the lives of those who live with her. She symbolizes mercy, modesty, courage, justice, wisdom, earth, fertility, and birth. She guards the souls of children.

The Serpent - A powerful fertility symbol, the serpent represented the male due to its shape, and rebirth through the shedding of its skin. It was thought to be one of the most mysterious, sacred creatures to the Celts.

Rabbits - Rabbit (Coinean) and Hare (Gèarr) are symbols of fertility, intuition, rebirth, promise, fulfillment, and balance. is also associated with abundance, rebirth and release and is symbolic of the 'tween times, dawn and dusk. He is the Goddess' creature and represents the Moon, night and dawn.


Its interesting what you can find with a simple search... and at this point I'm willing to try almost anything.

So I have bought myself a jade elephant to live in my bedroom, and I made myself a rose quartz bracelet to inspire fertility. Apparently rose quartz is quite the fertility stone, but it also works on depression and other well-being.

I found this information rather funny - yet interesting.

Instructions

Step 1

Rose Quartz aids in healing or controlling the circulatory systems, particularly blood pressure problems. Carry or wear it near your heart.

Step 2

Put a piece of Rose Quartz in a bowl of water and use it to rinse your face twice a day. It will increase circulation to the skin and give you a beautiful complexion.

Step 3

Rose Quartz is said to encourage fertility. Wear Rose Quartz if you are trying to become pregnant, and keep a piece of it in your drinking glass.

Step 4

Rose Quartz will accomplish the dual purposes of encouraging both humility and self love. Rose Quartz is a stone that everyone should have on them at all times.

Tips & Warnings

  • Rose Quartz combines well everything.
  • Try combining these minerals in bracelets or necklaces.
  • Combine pieces in a pouch and wear them, or just tuck them in your pocket.
  • If you experience anxiety or restlessness, or physical symptoms, like nausea, you may want to cut back your exposure.
  • If you are sensitive, try using only single stones, and not combinations.
  • Rose Quartz is one stone that is almost

Rose Quartz is said to be one of about four stones known to increase fertility. (others fertility crystals include moonstone, carnelian, and red coral)
Rose Quartz is the stone of unconditional love and infinite peace. It purifies and opens the heart at all levels, and brings deep inner healing and self love.

The healing properties of rose quartz are most powerful when placed upon the thymus and worn above the heart which is why this crystal works so well as a necklace.


Fertility related properties of Rose Quartz include:
·Balancing fertility.
·Equalizing sexual functions.
·Restoring emotional balance.
·Emanating a mother-child unconditional love.
·Attracting general positive energy.
·Easing fears and promoting healing.
·Fosters acceptance and promotes inner peace, which can
lead to less stress and an improvement in reproductive hormones.

Here are a few of the random websites I have read some of the interesting information from :

How To Choose and Use Healing Stones

How to Use Rose Quartz Energy

Fertility Feng Shui

The question now is … what wrist should I wear my Rose Quartz bracelet on?

Name the artist

Here is the scavenger hunt for the day ....
The artist who paints these pictures has been one of my favorites for a long time. Problem is, I don't know who the artist is.... Does anyone know??
 

For today ....

To the Greeks the butterfly was the symbol of the soul, and it was believed that each butterfly was a human soul searching for a new incarnation. The Celts also believed that butterflies were new souls seeking life. They believed that a woman became pregnant by swallowing these tiny butterfly souls.
 
Butterfly
 
Apparently I should start swallowing more butterfly souls.

For today ....

To the Greeks the butterfly was the symbol of the soul, and it was believed that each butterfly was a human soul searching for a new incarnation. The Celts also believed that butterflies were new souls seeking life. They believed that a woman became pregnant by swallowing these tiny butterfly souls.
 
Butterfly
 
Apparently I should start swallowing more butterfly souls.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Bono revisited....

In honor of there only being 84 more days until U2 I thought I'd revisit a Bono quote that I keep around for a reminder that its not all bad ...
 

"You can't surrender to melancholy; that's too easy. Joy is a subject I go on and on about. It's one of the only emotions you can't contrive. It's impossible. Despair and anger are easier to convey. Joy is right next to happiness, which is not so interesting, and sentimentality. Great rock 'n' roll, the raw stuff, is pure joy. It's that sense of being alive, of being grateful for your pulse." - BONO

 

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

I CLING TO HOPE SO HARD IT MAKES MY HANDS BLEED...

I went to lunch with a few friends a few weeks ago. I love being able to spend girl time with people I really love, but inevitably the one person I DON'T want to discuss infertility with asks over the table "So are you still not ovulating?"
This person is my husbands cousin. We have worked together, and I have learned to love her over the years. We even had a short bonding moment over her brief infertility. But there came a point where her whining just got on my nerves and I stopped listening. She has one child already. He is 3 or 4, I can't remember. She started trying for her second ... maybe a year ago. And All I heard from her was whine whine whine I can't get pregnant, I want another baby so badly, I'm so frustrated. Blah blah blah. It took 1 appointment with an Reproductive Endocrinologist and a prescription for Metformin and BAM! suddenly she is pregnant.
Wow, I wish I had it that easy. I've been on Metformin for almost 4 years now.  I've done the blood tests and the fertility drugs. I've timed my intercourse so I have swimmers waiting for Ovulation day. I take my temperature every morning and log my symptoms. I analyze every cramp or backache and how often I pee. I keep a record of when I have gas and how often I am irritable. I've dealt with medication induced PMS Rage and the crying and constant fatigue. . . What haven't I tried yet?
Sometimes I think people who already have one or more children have no place whining about infertility to someone who has never even seen what a positive pregnancy test looks like. They shouldn't talk about the stress that is cause by several months of not getting what they want. Try several years. There are some topics and some people that I just clam-up around and infertility is one of them and this cousin is another. My other lunch companions I would have talked to (as much as I do publicly speak about infertility, which is rare) but I just let the conversation pass over because I didn't want to answer her question. Thankfully, my other companion diverted the subject, whether she realized it or not, and I really appreciated it. Really. Thanks.
It just seems to me that as much as we need to talk about it sometimes ultimately if you are having trouble trying to conceive it may be best that it is a taboo subject.... sometimes its just not a topic someone wants brought up over a Grilled Chili-Lime Chicken Salad.
 

Monday, July 20, 2009

Here are a few of my favorite things.....

The Colbert ReportMon - Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
The Word - Guns, Credit, and Corn
www.colbertnation.com
Colbert Report Full EpisodesPolitical HumorJeff Goldblum

What did we watch this weekend?

Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince
V for Vendetta
That Thing You Do
Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone
Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban
Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire
Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix
The Italian Job

How Long??


94 Days!!


until U2 Live in Las Vegas!

Another Cycle.... Another Chart

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

“To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived - that is to have succeeded”  -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Stuff we have watched in the last few weeks...

Movies:
 
Transformers 2 - Okay .. there was more transformer action and less human involvement, but there was lost of stuff that could have been left out because it was just plain stupid.
 
Australia - Great .. though a little long
 
The Spirit - Okay .. Almost made it to Great, but fell a little short
 
Terminator - Okay
 
Terminator 2 - Okay .. Edward Furlong is way to squeaky in this one
 
Terminator 3 - Okay .. I hate John Connor in this movie
 
Max Payne - Oy! - goes on my 'worst movie ever' list
 
Push - Okay
 
Freddy vs. Jason - Okay .. always good for a laugh
 
Anime Series:
 
Full Metal Alchemist - Great .. I would recommend this one to anime fans or people just looking for an interesting show to watch
 
 
Ratings::
Bleh – Bad. Wouldn’t recommend
Meh – neither bad nor good just “meh”
Okay – maybe I’d watch it again
Great – Loved It! I’d Probably Buy it
Freaky – Bothered me
Yikes – Stay Away from this one
Dumb – Self explanatory
OY! - Wow that was a waist of time

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

how funny.....

Today's Capricorn Horoscope:
Jul 14, 2009

Sensual, passionate lovemaking is definitely on the agenda of activities for the night, dear Capricorn. Fun, excitement, romance, and love are all key themes that are likely to take precedence if you have anything to say about it - and you do. So speak up! Don't let someone else dictate your path for you. You know what you want, so don't say, "I don't care," when actually you do. Love is coming your way; learn how to grab it when it does.

 

too bad i really wanted to go home and sleep today.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Interesting Fact

During the Middle Ages, people signed legal contracts by making an "X" on the document and then kissing it to pledge their honor. That's how XX became shorthand for a smooch.

Ugh!

wow, this has been an eventful few days for me and John.
Thursday John had one of his crazy migraine episodes, but this time it included confusion, disorientation and loss of communication ability. So while he was speaking only gibberish we got a ride to the ER in an ambulance again. Thank Goodness for Insurance!
They didn't really do anything for him at the ER other then give him a bunch of drugs that eventually put him to sleep, but he was having a massive anxiety attack as well as being in shock. It was absolutely terrifying. They eventually sent us home once John had relaxed and could speak in full sentences again.
He scared the heck out of me and his family. He said that he was positive that he was going to die.
But he lived through it, and all he has to show for it is complete exhaustion from the combination of the shock and the medication. He's pretty much been sleeping off and on since Thursday night and hasn't been back to work yet.
On top of that, my 13 year-old niece came out to visit from Nashville and she spent the weekend at my house. She's my baby. I hauled that girl around all the time until she was 3 and they moved away from me. I was her nanny.
So I got to keep her entertained for 2 days which was super fun. We went to some museums and out to dinner and had a fantastic girls weekend while John either trailed behind or stayed home to sleep.
And now it's Monday again, and I forgot to weigh myself this morning. I'll get to it. DH stayed home from work again today with express instructions that if he even has an inkling of his numbness or migraine symptoms that he is to call his mother immediately.

Friday, July 10, 2009

My thermomiter is dying. I can always tell when it starts registering my morning temp as 96.76 because I really don't think I'm that cold when I wake up on summer mornings. So while I was at Walgreens picking up a prescription I bought a new one. It's pink and HUGE. I don't think I lose it anywhere it's about the size of Mahana which is to say it's roughly the size of a barge.
And while I was there I also picked up a box of Ovulation Predictor Kits or OPKs as they are called in the world of TTC.
So here we go again. Starting this month our due date would fall in April so it's out of the "no zone" ... and my father has requested a baby for his 75th birth day that gives me roughly 3 months to concieve for him to get one. No pressure, right?

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

time to blog again

Why haven't I been blogging lately?? 

a) I had too much fun over our 4th of July weekends
or
b) I have all failed on my weight loss journey and don't want to admit it out loud (or in writing as the case may be)

I think I choose "b" as my truthful answer. For the past 2 weeks my scale has said 225!
It seems like no matter what I do I can't seem to break out of the 220-229 zone and just bounce around between those 10 pounds. I am sure I just need to change up my routine a little and hope it makes a difference.

I read a fascinating article on MSN a few weeks ago and copied it down for my own FYI about when to do what in your daily schedule to help you get on track. Here it is so you can all find it interesting as well. Enjoy!

~*~*~

The Best Time of Day to Exercise, Take Vitamins, and More Health Moves

There's an optimal time for every health move, from eating breakfast and taking your allergy meds to quitting smoking and even having sex. Here's how to tune into those magic hours to boost your everyday well-being — and your long-term health.
By Aviva Patz


There's never a bad time to do something healthy, right? Not so fast. When it comes to maximizing your health, timing is everything. That's because we're hardwired to follow a "body clock," an internal timer that tells the body whether to sleep or work, nibble a light salad or devour a hearty stew, ovulate or grab a maxi pad. "Everything in nature works on a rhythm that is defined by time—hours, days, nights, weeks, seasons, years, and more," says Matthew Edlund, M.D., director of the Center for Circadian Medicine in Sarasota, Fla., and author of The Body Clock Advantage. Unfortunately, our lifestyle—wolfing down lunch at 3 p.m. between meetings, flouting our bedtime to watch "The Daily Show"—often throws those rhythms out of whack, which can lead to weight gain, up our risk of illness and disease, and leave us feeling sluggish and sad. But tuning in to your internal clockwork more closely has great advantages. "If you can get your innate body rhythms in sync with the food, activity, and rest you need, you can not only get healthier but even feel better day to day," Edlund says.
Calibrate your body clock with the timing tricks below. You'll improve your workouts, gain more energy, stabilize your mood, manage your weight more easily, and even prevent and treat illness more effectively. It's health as nature intended!

In the morning

Sleep an extra 20 minutes. There's no substitute for a solid night of Z's, but research suggests that rising as late as you can get away with—even if it's just 20 or 30 minutes later than you usually do—can make you more relaxed during the day. Our bodies naturally crank up the stress hormone cortisol in the a.m. so that we'll get up and moving, but postponing your wake-up time can lower those levels just enough to take the edge off. In a study at London's University of Westminster, earlier risers (who woke up as early as 5:22 a.m.) had higher cortisol levels during the first 45 minutes of their day and tended to be angrier at night than later risers (who got up as late as 10:30 a.m.), regardless of how much total sleep they got. While there's no optimal wake-up time, the researchers say, set the alarm for as late as your schedule will allow. For best results, try to go to bed and wake up at about the same times every day; this will keep your body clock running smoothly.

Weigh yourself. Stepping on the scale first thing (after the bathroom, before breakfast, wearing little to nothing) gives you the most accurate read on your weight, which can fluctuate by up to three pounds during the day! It's a good idea to weigh in daily: A study from Brown University and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill showed that 61 percent of people who did so maintained their weight within five pounds over time (compared with 32 percent who weighed in less often), mainly because it helped them catch weight gain early.

Slather on sunscreen. For the best possible protection, apply it (year-round) a full 30 minutes before you head outdoors—that's how long it takes for the stuff to soak in and become effective.

Bask in the morning light. Boost your energy for the day, and ward off depression, by getting a healthy dose of sunlight in the morning (after putting on sunscreen!). Exposure to natural light in the a.m. signals your body to cut off production of melatonin, a hormone that makes you sleepy. Light is also a natural antidepressant, according to several studies, and increases your body's production of vitamin D, which may help you fend off cancer and heart disease. So head outdoors for at least 10 minutes early in the day, whether that means walking to a farther bus stop or sipping your coffee on your porch.

Eat breakfast if you're watching your weight. A hearty starter, ideally eaten within 15 to 30 minutes of waking and no later than 8 a.m., will help you stave off a gain. "If you don't eat breakfast, your body thinks it's in starvation mode, and you'll eat more food later on," Edlund says. A Harvard Medical School study confirms that people who ate a morning meal were one third less likely to be obese than those who didn't. Go for whole grains (oatmeal, whole-grain cereal, or whole-grain toast) with a serving of protein (an egg, a tablespoon of nut butter, or a slice of low-fat cheese) and some fruit to keep you alert and feeling full for longer. Aim for a meal of around 200 to 300 calories.

In the afternoon

Take a power nap. A midday snooze isn't just for babies! By 2 p.m., your body temperature starts to dip, just as it does before bedtime, bringing your eyelids with it. Instead of hitting the vending machine for a sugar high—and eventual crash—try succumbing to your sleepiness and indulging in a 10-minute siesta. An Australian study compared naps lasting 5, 10, 20, and 30 minutes and found that 10 minutes left participants feeling the most refreshed, rested, and alert. Just make sure to set an alarm on your watch or phone so your doze doesn't go overtime, which can cause sleep inertia (that horrible post-snooze grogginess). Can't nap at work? Get off your duff for a 10-minute loop around the block. It's not as restorative, but it will clear your head and boost your circulation, energizing mind and body.

Skip "lunch" in favor of two mini-meals (of about 300 calories each). Eat the first one three hours following breakfast and the second about three hours after that to keep your blood sugar steady and your metabolism fired up. Time the second mini-meal to coincide with the low of that afternoon slump we mentioned—so, between 2 and 3 p.m. "You feel tired, and it's difficult to stay mindful, so you start putting stupid things in your mouth," says Pamela Peeke, M.D., author of Fit to Live: The 5 Point Plan to Be Lean, Strong, and Fearless for Life. "But having a bunch of fat and refined sugars is the worst thing you can do, because your energy will spike and then crash." Instead, go for lean protein, high-quality carbohydrates, and a bit of fat. Peeke's picks: 1 Tbsp of low-fat peanut butter on a pita, half a turkey wrap, or some low-fat yogurt or cottage cheese with fruit.

Get moving. Late afternoon to early evening (5 to 6 p.m.) may just be the best time to exercise, because that's when you're hottest, literally. Your body temperature reaches its daily peak (2 to 3 degrees warmer than in the morning), giving you maximum muscle strength, flexibility, agility, and stamina as well as faster reaction times. Even your lungs are using oxygen more efficiently at this time. You'll work out harder with less perceived effort and are less likely to injure yourself. Of course, any exercise is better than none, so if an early workout fits best with your schedule, keep it there. In fact, a.m. exercisers are most likely to stick to their habit: Studies have shown that more than 90 percent of people who work out in the morning are consistent about doing it.

At night

Down a glass of cranberry. You've probably heard that compounds in cranberry juice can help prevent urinary-tract infections. If you drink a glass in the evening, the juice will hang out in the bladder, fighting bacteria, till morning. Sip a cup after sex for extra protection: The juice can keep bacteria that's been pushed up the urethra during intercourse from sticking to bladder walls.

Invite the night. Preparation for bedtime should start well before you brush your teeth. Wind down any exercise three hours before bed to give your body temperature a chance to cool and signal the brain that it's sleep time. Also close the kitchen (and the bar) two to four hours in advance, since it takes that long for your stomach to empty of solid foods; doing so will help you avoid indigestion and acid reflux. Aim for an undivided seven to eight hours of sleep every night. And because environmental factors, from bright moonlight to fluorescent street lamps, can disrupt cues to your internal clock, it's best to keep the room dark—no night-lights, no neon alarm clocks, and certainly no flashing cell phones. Your brain's pineal gland needs darkness to make melatonin, a hormone that tells your body to drift off (see "Bask in the morning light"). The pineal gland gets confused if it senses light, compromising your sleep quality. Melatonin also has been linked to improved immunity and lower risk of cancer.

Slather on a sweat-stopper. Take a shower before bed (or just spot-wash your underarms—or your feet, if they've been smelly). Then dry off and apply the antiperspirant of your choice. At night, your body's temperature naturally lowers and you're less likely to sweat, which gives antiperspirant a chance to fully absorb and allows its active ingredients to go to work. By the time you step into the shower the next day, you'll be totally protected.

Take your allergy meds. Both allergy symptoms and the pollen count are highest first thing in the morning, so take your long-acting antihistamines at night to avoid waking up to a sneeze-fest. Bonus: If the pills make you sleepy, taking them at bedtime might help you drop off.

Pop an aspirin if you're a candidate for high blood pressure, the biggest risk factor for heart disease and stroke. In a recent study from the University of Vigo in Spain, people with prehypertension (blood pressure that's between normal and high) who took aspirin around 11 p.m. had lower blood pressure readings after three months than people with prehypertension who took aspirin at 8 a.m. or who made dietary changes. Researchers believe aspirin works by slowing the nighttime production of hormones and other substances that lead to clotting. Talk to your doctor to find out whether it might help you.

The best time to schedule ...

A doctor's appointment: First thing in the morning.

Cut your waiting-room time by booking the first appointment of the day, before the doctor falls behind schedule. A morning slot also keeps you from getting too hungry if you have to fast before a lab test. And if you have asthma, your doc is more likely to catch problems in the a.m., since that's when lung function is poorest. If the morning's all booked, try to snag the first spot after lunch—by then the office should have had enough time to catch up. If you're picking up a prescription, hit the pharmacy before 3 p.m. on weekdays for faster service and less chance of error.

Surgery: Before noon.

Your prime time for surgery is in the morning, when there tend to be fewer complications. In a study of more than 90,000 operations analyzed by Duke University, adverse events were more common between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. and least common from 9 a.m. to noon. That may be because the body's circadian rhythm dips in the late afternoon, dropping cortisol and adrenaline and zapping surgeons' energy and concentration. Also, you may be more likely to feel pain or post-op nausea in the afternoon. Try to nab the second or third slot in the OR: A study in the Journal of American College of Surgeons shows that surgeons perform better when they're warmed up. Whatever you do, don't go under the knife on the weekends if you can avoid it; mortality rates are higher, probably because the more senior physicians—who can set their own schedules—are off duty, leaving less experienced staff in charge.

A root canal: Between 1 and 3 p.m.

According to European studies, local anesthesia lasts three times longer when given in the early afternoon than when given in the morning or evening.

A flu shot: Early fall.

Flu season typically runs from October through March, so the best time to get the jab is September or October. (The vaccination takes two weeks to become effective.) The shot can help you skirt the flu's chills, fever, and general misery, and may also help prevent heart-attack deaths, which can be triggered by acute inflammation, according to a study in the European Heart Journal.

A full-body skin check: Winter.

This is when skin tends to be fairest, making it easier for your dermatologist to catch unusual moles or other changes that could indicate skin cancer. Alicia D. Zalka, M.D., an associate clinical professor of dermatology at Yale, advises taking note of any darkly pigmented, irregularly bordered, nonraised spots or patches, or nonhealing bumps resembling pimples that don't go away. "Any lesion that goes unhealed for more than three to five weeks may mean a skin cancer or precancerous spot," Zalka says, "so see your doctor."

Women: Make the most of your cycle

Hormones fluctuate wildly over the course of the month, creating great—and not-so-great—opportunities for a variety of health moves. Day 1 of your menstrual cycle is the day your period starts, so schedule these actions accordingly:
• Before your period, Days 23-28: Stay out of pain. Avoid procedures like a root canal or a bikini wax: They'll hurt more now. "Endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine"—all natural feel-good chemicals—"typically plummet right before your period," says Rebecca Booth, M.D., author of The Venus Week. Reschedule them for ovulation time (days 13-15), when, according to a University of Michigan study, we produce the most endorphins to offset pain.
• During your period, Days 1-3: Get busy. It may not be the most convenient time, but orgasms—always great—are even greater during your period. That's because they cause a spike in serotonin, which is naturally running low just before and during the first three or so days of menstruation. Some women even enjoy a heightened libido just before their period, thanks to a drop in estrogen and a rise in testosterone.
• After your period, Days 3-13: Do a breast self-exam (BSE). A post-period rise in estrogen returns your swollen, tender breasts to their most supple state, making it the perfect time to check them for unusual lumps and bumps. Although experts don't insist on a monthly BSE anymore, when you do feel your breasts for changes, do it at this time of the month—differences will be more detectable.
• After ovulation, Days 14-23: Plan to quit smoking. Women who try to kick the habit now, after ovulation, may be less likely to succeed—possibly because they have worse withdrawal symptoms, according to a recent study from the Medical University of South Carolina. So set a quit date during the first half of your cycle (days 1-13), and use these next two weeks to get psyched and gather the support you need to stop smoking for good.

time to blog again

Why haven't I been blogging lately?? 

a) I had too much fun over our 4th of July weekends
or
b) I have all failed on my weight loss journey and don't want to admit it out loud (or in writing as the case may be)

I think I choose "b" as my truthful answer. For the past 2 weeks my scale has said 225!
It seems like no matter what I do I can't seem to break out of the 220-229 zone and just bounce around between those 10 pounds. I am sure I just need to change up my routine a little and hope it makes a difference.

I read a fascinating article on MSN a few weeks ago and copied it down for my own FYI about when to do what in your daily schedule to help you get on track. Here it is so you can all find it interesting as well. Enjoy!

~*~*~

The Best Time of Day to Exercise, Take Vitamins, and More Health Moves

There's an optimal time for every health move, from eating breakfast and taking your allergy meds to quitting smoking and even having sex. Here's how to tune into those magic hours to boost your everyday well-being — and your long-term health.
By Aviva Patz


There's never a bad time to do something healthy, right? Not so fast. When it comes to maximizing your health, timing is everything. That's because we're hardwired to follow a "body clock," an internal timer that tells the body whether to sleep or work, nibble a light salad or devour a hearty stew, ovulate or grab a maxi pad. "Everything in nature works on a rhythm that is defined by time—hours, days, nights, weeks, seasons, years, and more," says Matthew Edlund, M.D., director of the Center for Circadian Medicine in Sarasota, Fla., and author of The Body Clock Advantage. Unfortunately, our lifestyle—wolfing down lunch at 3 p.m. between meetings, flouting our bedtime to watch "The Daily Show"—often throws those rhythms out of whack, which can lead to weight gain, up our risk of illness and disease, and leave us feeling sluggish and sad. But tuning in to your internal clockwork more closely has great advantages. "If you can get your innate body rhythms in sync with the food, activity, and rest you need, you can not only get healthier but even feel better day to day," Edlund says.
Calibrate your body clock with the timing tricks below. You'll improve your workouts, gain more energy, stabilize your mood, manage your weight more easily, and even prevent and treat illness more effectively. It's health as nature intended!

In the morning

Sleep an extra 20 minutes. There's no substitute for a solid night of Z's, but research suggests that rising as late as you can get away with—even if it's just 20 or 30 minutes later than you usually do—can make you more relaxed during the day. Our bodies naturally crank up the stress hormone cortisol in the a.m. so that we'll get up and moving, but postponing your wake-up time can lower those levels just enough to take the edge off. In a study at London's University of Westminster, earlier risers (who woke up as early as 5:22 a.m.) had higher cortisol levels during the first 45 minutes of their day and tended to be angrier at night than later risers (who got up as late as 10:30 a.m.), regardless of how much total sleep they got. While there's no optimal wake-up time, the researchers say, set the alarm for as late as your schedule will allow. For best results, try to go to bed and wake up at about the same times every day; this will keep your body clock running smoothly.

Weigh yourself. Stepping on the scale first thing (after the bathroom, before breakfast, wearing little to nothing) gives you the most accurate read on your weight, which can fluctuate by up to three pounds during the day! It's a good idea to weigh in daily: A study from Brown University and the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill showed that 61 percent of people who did so maintained their weight within five pounds over time (compared with 32 percent who weighed in less often), mainly because it helped them catch weight gain early.

Slather on sunscreen. For the best possible protection, apply it (year-round) a full 30 minutes before you head outdoors—that's how long it takes for the stuff to soak in and become effective.

Bask in the morning light. Boost your energy for the day, and ward off depression, by getting a healthy dose of sunlight in the morning (after putting on sunscreen!). Exposure to natural light in the a.m. signals your body to cut off production of melatonin, a hormone that makes you sleepy. Light is also a natural antidepressant, according to several studies, and increases your body's production of vitamin D, which may help you fend off cancer and heart disease. So head outdoors for at least 10 minutes early in the day, whether that means walking to a farther bus stop or sipping your coffee on your porch.

Eat breakfast if you're watching your weight. A hearty starter, ideally eaten within 15 to 30 minutes of waking and no later than 8 a.m., will help you stave off a gain. "If you don't eat breakfast, your body thinks it's in starvation mode, and you'll eat more food later on," Edlund says. A Harvard Medical School study confirms that people who ate a morning meal were one third less likely to be obese than those who didn't. Go for whole grains (oatmeal, whole-grain cereal, or whole-grain toast) with a serving of protein (an egg, a tablespoon of nut butter, or a slice of low-fat cheese) and some fruit to keep you alert and feeling full for longer. Aim for a meal of around 200 to 300 calories.

In the afternoon

Take a power nap. A midday snooze isn't just for babies! By 2 p.m., your body temperature starts to dip, just as it does before bedtime, bringing your eyelids with it. Instead of hitting the vending machine for a sugar high—and eventual crash—try succumbing to your sleepiness and indulging in a 10-minute siesta. An Australian study compared naps lasting 5, 10, 20, and 30 minutes and found that 10 minutes left participants feeling the most refreshed, rested, and alert. Just make sure to set an alarm on your watch or phone so your doze doesn't go overtime, which can cause sleep inertia (that horrible post-snooze grogginess). Can't nap at work? Get off your duff for a 10-minute loop around the block. It's not as restorative, but it will clear your head and boost your circulation, energizing mind and body.

Skip "lunch" in favor of two mini-meals (of about 300 calories each). Eat the first one three hours following breakfast and the second about three hours after that to keep your blood sugar steady and your metabolism fired up. Time the second mini-meal to coincide with the low of that afternoon slump we mentioned—so, between 2 and 3 p.m. "You feel tired, and it's difficult to stay mindful, so you start putting stupid things in your mouth," says Pamela Peeke, M.D., author of Fit to Live: The 5 Point Plan to Be Lean, Strong, and Fearless for Life. "But having a bunch of fat and refined sugars is the worst thing you can do, because your energy will spike and then crash." Instead, go for lean protein, high-quality carbohydrates, and a bit of fat. Peeke's picks: 1 Tbsp of low-fat peanut butter on a pita, half a turkey wrap, or some low-fat yogurt or cottage cheese with fruit.

Get moving. Late afternoon to early evening (5 to 6 p.m.) may just be the best time to exercise, because that's when you're hottest, literally. Your body temperature reaches its daily peak (2 to 3 degrees warmer than in the morning), giving you maximum muscle strength, flexibility, agility, and stamina as well as faster reaction times. Even your lungs are using oxygen more efficiently at this time. You'll work out harder with less perceived effort and are less likely to injure yourself. Of course, any exercise is better than none, so if an early workout fits best with your schedule, keep it there. In fact, a.m. exercisers are most likely to stick to their habit: Studies have shown that more than 90 percent of people who work out in the morning are consistent about doing it.

At night

Down a glass of cranberry. You've probably heard that compounds in cranberry juice can help prevent urinary-tract infections. If you drink a glass in the evening, the juice will hang out in the bladder, fighting bacteria, till morning. Sip a cup after sex for extra protection: The juice can keep bacteria that's been pushed up the urethra during intercourse from sticking to bladder walls.

Invite the night. Preparation for bedtime should start well before you brush your teeth. Wind down any exercise three hours before bed to give your body temperature a chance to cool and signal the brain that it's sleep time. Also close the kitchen (and the bar) two to four hours in advance, since it takes that long for your stomach to empty of solid foods; doing so will help you avoid indigestion and acid reflux. Aim for an undivided seven to eight hours of sleep every night. And because environmental factors, from bright moonlight to fluorescent street lamps, can disrupt cues to your internal clock, it's best to keep the room dark—no night-lights, no neon alarm clocks, and certainly no flashing cell phones. Your brain's pineal gland needs darkness to make melatonin, a hormone that tells your body to drift off (see "Bask in the morning light"). The pineal gland gets confused if it senses light, compromising your sleep quality. Melatonin also has been linked to improved immunity and lower risk of cancer.

Slather on a sweat-stopper. Take a shower before bed (or just spot-wash your underarms—or your feet, if they've been smelly). Then dry off and apply the antiperspirant of your choice. At night, your body's temperature naturally lowers and you're less likely to sweat, which gives antiperspirant a chance to fully absorb and allows its active ingredients to go to work. By the time you step into the shower the next day, you'll be totally protected.

Take your allergy meds. Both allergy symptoms and the pollen count are highest first thing in the morning, so take your long-acting antihistamines at night to avoid waking up to a sneeze-fest. Bonus: If the pills make you sleepy, taking them at bedtime might help you drop off.

Pop an aspirin if you're a candidate for high blood pressure, the biggest risk factor for heart disease and stroke. In a recent study from the University of Vigo in Spain, people with prehypertension (blood pressure that's between normal and high) who took aspirin around 11 p.m. had lower blood pressure readings after three months than people with prehypertension who took aspirin at 8 a.m. or who made dietary changes. Researchers believe aspirin works by slowing the nighttime production of hormones and other substances that lead to clotting. Talk to your doctor to find out whether it might help you.

The best time to schedule ...

A doctor's appointment: First thing in the morning.

Cut your waiting-room time by booking the first appointment of the day, before the doctor falls behind schedule. A morning slot also keeps you from getting too hungry if you have to fast before a lab test. And if you have asthma, your doc is more likely to catch problems in the a.m., since that's when lung function is poorest. If the morning's all booked, try to snag the first spot after lunch—by then the office should have had enough time to catch up. If you're picking up a prescription, hit the pharmacy before 3 p.m. on weekdays for faster service and less chance of error.

Surgery: Before noon.

Your prime time for surgery is in the morning, when there tend to be fewer complications. In a study of more than 90,000 operations analyzed by Duke University, adverse events were more common between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. and least common from 9 a.m. to noon. That may be because the body's circadian rhythm dips in the late afternoon, dropping cortisol and adrenaline and zapping surgeons' energy and concentration. Also, you may be more likely to feel pain or post-op nausea in the afternoon. Try to nab the second or third slot in the OR: A study in the Journal of American College of Surgeons shows that surgeons perform better when they're warmed up. Whatever you do, don't go under the knife on the weekends if you can avoid it; mortality rates are higher, probably because the more senior physicians—who can set their own schedules—are off duty, leaving less experienced staff in charge.

A root canal: Between 1 and 3 p.m.

According to European studies, local anesthesia lasts three times longer when given in the early afternoon than when given in the morning or evening.

A flu shot: Early fall.

Flu season typically runs from October through March, so the best time to get the jab is September or October. (The vaccination takes two weeks to become effective.) The shot can help you skirt the flu's chills, fever, and general misery, and may also help prevent heart-attack deaths, which can be triggered by acute inflammation, according to a study in the European Heart Journal.

A full-body skin check: Winter.

This is when skin tends to be fairest, making it easier for your dermatologist to catch unusual moles or other changes that could indicate skin cancer. Alicia D. Zalka, M.D., an associate clinical professor of dermatology at Yale, advises taking note of any darkly pigmented, irregularly bordered, nonraised spots or patches, or nonhealing bumps resembling pimples that don't go away. "Any lesion that goes unhealed for more than three to five weeks may mean a skin cancer or precancerous spot," Zalka says, "so see your doctor."

Women: Make the most of your cycle

Hormones fluctuate wildly over the course of the month, creating great—and not-so-great—opportunities for a variety of health moves. Day 1 of your menstrual cycle is the day your period starts, so schedule these actions accordingly:
• Before your period, Days 23-28: Stay out of pain. Avoid procedures like a root canal or a bikini wax: They'll hurt more now. "Endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine"—all natural feel-good chemicals—"typically plummet right before your period," says Rebecca Booth, M.D., author of The Venus Week. Reschedule them for ovulation time (days 13-15), when, according to a University of Michigan study, we produce the most endorphins to offset pain.
• During your period, Days 1-3: Get busy. It may not be the most convenient time, but orgasms—always great—are even greater during your period. That's because they cause a spike in serotonin, which is naturally running low just before and during the first three or so days of menstruation. Some women even enjoy a heightened libido just before their period, thanks to a drop in estrogen and a rise in testosterone.
• After your period, Days 3-13: Do a breast self-exam (BSE). A post-period rise in estrogen returns your swollen, tender breasts to their most supple state, making it the perfect time to check them for unusual lumps and bumps. Although experts don't insist on a monthly BSE anymore, when you do feel your breasts for changes, do it at this time of the month—differences will be more detectable.
• After ovulation, Days 14-23: Plan to quit smoking. Women who try to kick the habit now, after ovulation, may be less likely to succeed—possibly because they have worse withdrawal symptoms, according to a recent study from the Medical University of South Carolina. So set a quit date during the first half of your cycle (days 1-13), and use these next two weeks to get psyched and gather the support you need to stop smoking for good.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Fun with other people's kids

These are my two adorable nieces that I got to spend time with the last few weeks.

Natalie & John

Lucy Ann

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Book Review

Just ListenThis is one of those teen-drama books about a teenage girl who has problems that she needs to figure out but she cant do it on her own. It basically covers a year in her life and all the family drama that goes on leaving the youngest daughter wanting for something more real.
I loved this book. In some ways it reminded me of me, or of someone I know or of what could have been. It made me cry several times.
I really did just stumble upon this book as I was doing a search for something else to read and the title "Just Listen" caught my attention. I would recommend this book to others because I though it was worth my reading time, but also because by the end you feel better about life and how it should work out. Five stars for this all the way.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

It's July!

This is one of my favorite months of the year. I love Fireworks!
But before we get to the fireworks I want to wish every one a Happy Canada Day on this lovely July 1st.
 
(no, I'm not Canadian, but that doesn't stop me from celebrating their holidays too)

It's July 1st!!

As the Days Go By

I had a friend in high school that always used to say "life sucks, and then you die" how right he is sometimes.
 
It's coming closer... John and I will be hitting the 3 year mark in August.
I remember back when I was 25 and John said to me, 'just give us 5 more years to get on our feet and then we'll start a family'
I was horrified at the though of waiting until I was 30 to start having my family... I never wanted to be an "old mom" so when we thought we were accidentally pregnant in 2006 John said 'why not' and we've been trying to conceive ever since.
If I had known it would be this hard 5 years ago I would have just started trying back then and then maybe I'd have a baby by now.
But as it is I have at least 8 children Willed to me in case of parental death, but none of my own.
 
Anyway, on a lighter note it's July! This is one of my favorite months of the year. I love Fireworks!
But before we get to the fireworks I want to wish every one a Happy Canada Day on this lovely July 1st.
 
(no, I'm not Canadian, but that doesn't stop me from celebrating their holidays too)